Monday, March 9, 2009

Passive Aggressiveness

Something is bothering you:
What a friend said,
What a colleague did,
How an organization is being run.

You keep your silence.
What is the point after all?
Nothing is going to change,
You rather believe.
You keep getting hurt.
You build up anger within yourself,
More and more everyday.

What if you speak up?
What would you lose if no one hears you out?
What if someone does?
What if something changes?
What if you learn you were wrong?
Maybe you had no reason to be mad to begin with!
Maybe you learn something you did not know!

You accept the status quo.
You accept the behavior you do not like.
You do not give others an opportunity to explain, to improve, to gain your trust.
You allow yourself to blame others for your unhappiness.
After all,
If others resolve the issue,
Who else would you have to blame?
So, you keep quiet.
You resist change.
You resist being proven wrong.
You protect yourself.
You hide behind others.

Speak up gently sometimes.
Ask questions.
Declare your feelings.
Declare your thoughts.
Give others the benefit of the doubt.
You may see more clearly.
You may live happier.

2 comments:

Mehrnaz Memar said...

Wow, So beautiful and meaningful.

I think you should publish these poems in a book. Seriously.

Nargess said...

Thanks Mehrnaz! I will consider it, assuming I end up with a book's worth of poems. I personally did not consider this post a poem, but I am happy it sounded like one to you.